This is someone who often thinks of the material stuff, insults others and be insulted by others because of the socio-economic status that people and her have.
Yes, sometimes it is unnecessary to look down on people based on their background or how much they pretend to spend on each week… Then again, why not? It is an obvious thing to be commented on, no hard feelings, right… You might mean more or less than the asset you have now but it takes time to get to know you. So, why not take notice on the obvious things?
If people like me who spend a lot in our everyday lives can mean two things, either we are successful people or those who spend others’ wealth. In stereotypes, we are perceived as the arrogant people who can help others but not all of us do that, if we do not share then we are perceived as the wealthy trash.
Is giving to others the only option for us to be admired as the generous and succesful people? Yes.
That’s why sometimes we only give more to others because of two things : 1) we can and 2) we want your praise and you to label us as generous.